What my baby said when she was 2 months old

Mothers are not suppose to hear words only, they can feel the child and tell what he or she is up to , if child is in pain she can cure it and if child is happy she can celebrate it this is what motherhood is so precious and artful.

When my baby was just two month old she started looking here and there, she has left the routine of sleeping all the time. Her little responses used to fascinate me a lot. She started giving attention to sound, jingle bells, claps, noises and started paying attention towards bright lights and colors. This change was not may be too obvious for normal person living around but for a mother it was too obvious to understand.

Whenever she is hungry she cries, and I always get the idea by her unique cry that she wants milk, she used to intake milk so speedily that often she get coughs and I always get upset. And then its been always uncertain that whether she has digested it or not these are the first phase problems. I suggest to all new mothers by my experience that as our children of few month can’t really talk so we have to pay more attention to them, an also have to observe them more because once they will start talking things may turn easy to understand.

For early mothers its really important to learn that firstly we should mark out timings of milk, mostly baby takes feed after almost every 2-3 or 3-4 hours. Its more appropriate to give baby mother feed because it provides with the joyful bonding with your baby ,its the perfect nutrition only you can provide, the cost savings as well , and the health benefits for both mother and baby. One should keep in mind that breastfeeding is a learned skill. It requires patience and practice. For some women, the learning stages can be frustrating and uncomfortable. And some situations make breastfeeding even harder, such as babies born early or health problems in the mother but it is like the much you the better you will be.

Benefits of breastfeeding: Breastfeeding Protects Babies, Early breast milk is liquid gold , Your breast milk changes as your baby grows , Breast milk is easier to digest, Breast milk fights disease ,Breast milk is readily available without needing other supplies, Breast milk is the right temperature for babies and helps to prevent hypothermia, when the body temperature drops too low, he cells,hormones, and antibodies in breast milk protect babies from illness, his milk is very rich in nutrients and antibodies to protect your baby and breastfeeding has also been shown to lower the risk of SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome).

Cleanliness is very important before breastfeeding, mother should always clean their breasts with breast pads or warm towel it will avoid all unhygienic things from baby. Make your bond strong with your baby, give them the best so that they can give their best in life.

Things also get blue in starry world

It was all going good, but I never knew with the term so unfamiliar but actually surviving deep inside me, it was post pregnancy depression. My baby was not much annoying but for no good reason I started being rude to people, over sensitive towards small issues, all the time yelling and being biased from everyone even to my spouse. When I went to my doctor for general checkup I shared these problems to her and then I got to know that many a times after delivery of baby women may suffer from this hormonal disorder.

Disorders, pains, or anything bad doesn't really hurt to the extent when your spouse is unable to understand it was the thing which was pinching me a lot. I was really hurt because whenever I used to cry, my husband used to think it was impractical of me without knowing the fact if am doing so I might be disturbed or upset. When he got to know by a doctor that its really true am clinically not okay then he started understanding me a bit. Well without any medication I started recovering from this depression with a passage of time.

Babies are too demanding this is the foremost feeling I realized. I was really blissful to be the part of this innocent world but also at times whenever anything hurts me, or I myself get disturbed for no good reason my daughter is the only one who gets its effects her innocent eyes when used to look at my angry face I got a smile but with filled eyes it used to hurt me when I don't response her the way she expects or deserves.

I have been hearing this thing since I got senses, babies make the couple bond strong but what I have gone through was bit different. my husband used to be very very careful regarding baby but usually started ignoring me he thinks he can handle her well then me but it was not really true. I understand my daughter more than him or anyone .if she cries he expects me to panic as he used to do whereas I don't want to panic I more try to realize why is she weeping or so and point always came up with a conflict between us.

Love and care is not something which is more obvious when you tell it in words , I know what my baby is for me. She has been always the most beautiful part of me. But this tiny phase of depression and lack of understanding between me and my spouse made this happiness bit less and I started wondering that am I going to prove my love for my daughter to people around me or why my man is not understanding my point of depression or problem. I wished at that time that may these blues get down soon because I love my family and wanted to live happily ever after.

How To Avoid Baby Nappy Rashes

If your baby is crying all the time and you feel that he/she is very restless and uncomfortable and is not interested to eat well than don't be angry on your baby and realize that there is something wrong with your baby. Check baby's diaper, you may find some red colored rashes on his/her skin, a very common problem which usually a new mother face. It happened just because of our little carelessness. Nappy rashes sometimes become so severe that you find small pink colored pimples on your baby's skin.

Babies have very sensitive and soft skin, so it requires a great care to take. First step that a mother should take is to make the baby skin neat and clean and its better to wash your baby with water whenever you are going to change his/her diaper to avoid nappy rashes. In my opinion, you should not compromise on your baby's health, so the diapers you use for your baby should be very soft and good in quality. Diaper should change at a regular intervals of time. I feel that its better to change after 6-8 hours.

Mustered oil is very good to avoid rashes and if a baby get suffered by rashes its also has the healing power. Petroleum jelly is also suggested by doctors to apply on baby skin as it is use not only for babies but also for adults.

If your baby get severally suffered by rashes, certain skin protecting ointments are also available in markets but I suggest don't use any medicine without your doctor's prescription.

My Welcome In Babies Starry World

It was a usual day but something happened , which actually turned out my life and gave me real meaning to live for. 27Th, Oct. 2010 at 7:15 pm I was blessed with a baby girl. I never felt my life so beautiful ever before, it was just that angel came to me and gave me fairy or a princess so pretty , innocent , and cherish-able. The moment I took her in my arms my eyes were full of tears ,lips were with a big unforgettable smile and was literally trying to let myself realize am now a MOTHER and this little princess is my whole twinkling world to live for. Her first tender touch was out of this world no words, are able to describe those motherhood gestures, I couldn't control my tears and laughter full of joy I was actually entered in a new Babies starry world.

Initially it was very hard to hold her because she was too little to be carried out, whenever I wanted to play with her she wanted to sleep like her routine was just to eat and sleep I used to wonder why doesn’t she play or why she is like this, at that time I didn’t know baby age of 2 days cant really response. I only used to see her for hours and hours while she sleeps , and the most exciting thing was when she gave big smile while sleeping that was the most eye catching moment a smile full of joy, innocence, and love my camera was always used to be ready to catch such precious moments. I used to hold her in my arms all the time and used to feel her breath , she made me realize that she is part of me its like am in her and she is in me.

Day by day I started to note down changes she made in her routine at times she used to sleep whole day and wake up all night long , her distraction in sleeping routine makes me annoyed and I used to request her humbly that “ please baby go to sleep mama is too much tired please go to sleep “ but unfortunately she cared damn about my humble request and kept on the way she wanted. I forgot to have good long night sleep in those days. The only posture she wanted to sleep in was on me and I used to lay down straight all night long so that she don’t get disturbed and don’t get up again.

By the 15th day of her birth I got to know she had jaundice, she was bit pale and down . The moment I got to know this , i felt as if I got jaundice and it will never recover its sounds funny but I started crying in front of doctor and started pleading him that please give her the speedy recovery medicine so that my baby recovers soon. Whenever she sneezes, she coughs, or she shivers I used to feel very very upset and funny most part is her burbs, and fart always made me realize that she is okay with her digestion and I used to feel very happy.

Exactly when my meal is ready she always either started crying or she became hungry. I don’t remember any together meal on a table with my family for the first two months after her birth. Her abruptly changing moods makes me confused at times. I wanted minimum two people with me whenever she takes bath. She was too tough to be handled very slippery because of applied milk bath though I used to apply tearless shampoo but always had a fear that it might not hurt her. She always enjoyed taking bath and cries a lot when she dressed up. Exactly whenever I feels she is done with her dressing and looking so neat she burbs and vomit over dos-aged milk and made me feel pulling my hair and yelling on her why you always unclean yourself when I make you look clean.

I was really happy and enjoying the new world. My room full of pampers, baby clothes, baby face wash, baby milk shampoo, toys, and jingle sounds of toy bell, sounds as if somebody took me to baby world , but the moment she cries and make me restless and sleep less I want to place new rule in this world with a restriction note that “babies are not allowed to cry and wake up after 9 pm”.