Human nature always impatient, and eager for the things they love to have in their lives. As I was when my baby girl was just 5 months and I was like call me mama but in-fact had never heard at that time.
New mothers including me always have questions to mothers of more than one or two child questions like, when my baby will call me ? When my baby will start crawling ? When my baby will start sitting ? When baby will start walking ? And a lot more when when when , how , why not now, etc anxious questions made experienced mothers laugh. I have been always with a big question mark on my face regarding my baby : ) the reason may be I want my baby girl to talk ,walk , and rock with me very soon.
Suggestions I would like to place at this point which I have learned from my experience and also discussed with other friends are, first of all there is nothing to create panic there is time for everything. Babies usually start changing their sides when they are at age of 4-5 months, mothers should get alert at this time cuz initially they might not expecting as I was, my baby fell down from bed when she was 5 months old I didn’t know actually she could move to this extent and I just heard bang sound and a big cry which made me realize she is no more on the bed and its now time to give her more attention. To avoid such bad incidents mothers should give support of pillows , cushions, and buffers around baby while sitting and laying down so that they won't get hurt.
Laughter for no good reason, and cry for no bad reason will be start at this stage of 5 – 6 months. Babies if will like any thing, they will laugh and want it rapidly done again and again. Any annoying attitude can make babies mood very bad and sad abruptly. According to few researches one should not repeat that act from which baby gets annoys because this may can irritate her/him and also can make attitude crabby.
My baby girl has just started sitting now a days but I found her seating posture bit swinging posture because she can't sit for more then 5 minutes as she is just 6 n half months old. I enjoy her while she sits and suddenly gets about to fall in any of the side but I grab her urgently in my arms, usually give her a kiss, a warm hug and let her realize that am here for her and will not let her fall and will always be there to love her.
A lot many things to come over and am waiting to enjoy them and specially when I will hear her first sound saying MAMA...................... :)
Its very easy to criticize but very hard to implement in our own lives I have heard women taunting those mothers who couldn’t feed their child due to any certain reason it doesn't mean that they don't love their child or they don’t care the way other mother do , life teaches us something really important that we should never pass any comment to other person because we never can realize the actual position in which candidate is.
Breastfeed, bottle feed or formula feed MOTHER always want , or intend to have best for her child. If we talk about facts yes breastfeeding may provide baby with countless benefits but if due to any worst case scenario mother won't get able to feed her baby we should never condemn her or make her guilty for this act. On the other hand if mother intentionally don't want to feed her child she herself will guilty when she will realize the benefits of breastfeeding.
As in my previous post I have thoroughly discussed that how mother feed helps child grow in a better way but now I also want to add on few benefits for mothers themselves I would like telling moms that how breastfeed would become easy not only in terms on several benefits for child but also for themselves.
BENEFITS OF BREASTFEEDING FOR ALL MOMS :
Reduces the risk of breast cancer. Women who breastfeed reduce their risk of developing breast cancer by as much as 25 percent.
Reduces the risk of uterine and ovarian cancer: One of the reasons for the cancer-fighting effects of breastfeeding is that estrogen levels are lower during lactation. It is thought that the less estrogen available to stimulate the lining of the uterus and perhaps breast tissue also, the less the risk of these tissues becoming cancerous.
Benefits child spacing: Since breastfeeding delays ovulation, the longer a mother breastfeeds the more she is able to practice natural child spacing, if she desires.
Promotes postpartum weight loss Breastfeeding mothers showed significantly larger reductions in hip circumference and more fat loss by one month postpartum when compared with formula-feeding moms. Breastfeeding mothers tend to have an earlier return to their per-pregnant weight.
Costs less to breastfeed: It costs much much more, as everything is being expensive day by day this is also very costly.
MOTHERS WHO DON'T BREASTFEED DON'T FEEL BAD:
Most of us just do our best according to our circumstances and knowledge; so if you bottle feed, and it is the best you could do, there is no reason to feel guilty. The MOST essential things children need are LOVE, nurturing, caring, proper discipline, nutrition, education, parents, a home of strong bonding of relationships.
In many cases we just start blaming without knowing the fact that may be what if a mother has an infectious disease such as HIV, the baby has health issues which prevent proper nursing, or the mother is taking any type of drug that can be harmful to the baby, prescribed or otherwise breastfeeding is not recommended. The only special thing in case of bottle feed is to be cared of and to make sure bottles are clean, water is well boiled and Luke warm, and one should do quality measurement of milk which is suppose to dissolve in water.
We should always try to help people around us, help early
stage mothers rather then discouraging them for their any misconduct.
MOTHERS ALWAYS WANT THE BEST FOR THEIR CHILD.
Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn,
Hundreds of bees in the purple clover,
Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn,
But only one mother the wide world over.
~George Cooper
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